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Looking for the Perfect Dating Partner

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Looking for the Perfect Dating Partner

right partnerHard but not an impossible task, looking for the prefect dating partner can be achievable if you follow simple dating guidelines. Mr. Right can turn out to be Mr. Nightmare, it's up to you to prevent them to evolve into deeper but frustrated relationships.

Either seeking a girl or seeking a guy, this article will help you by laying a few simple rules or advices to keep in mind when looking for the right dating partner. The best place to start your future relationship is right here. Zaaam Dating is Totally FREE, safe and ads clean, sign up for a profile here.

There is no perfect formula for finding the right dating partner, this would be the same as finding the "Holly Grail". When it comes to feelings very little science can be applied. But, there are a few advices that can boost your changes by 90% and eliminate imperfect matches, leaving you with just the best ones to consider.

N.1 Make list of the attributes that your partner needs to have "must have" and would like to have "not a must". The list should be separated in two columns. First column "must have", second column "would like to have".

N.2 In the above list you should consider age, cultural background, ethnical background, location, religion, kids, smoking, drinking, hobbies, work, books, music, films, etc. You can add more topics to the above list that you consider important, remember to separate them in column one or two according to importance.

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N.3 In the first column "must have" we can make a few recommendations. Relationships are happier, fulfilled and long lasting when there is a cultural or educational background, kids, hobbies or interests in life match.

N.4 We specially recommend you to make a sub list of 10 of your hobbies. Your perfect mach should have correspondence with at least 5 of your hobbies. If you think about this, in a relationship or marriage you are going to spend a lot of time with your partner. Intimacy grows larger and longer if you spend as much time as you can with your partner doing the things you like or love.

N.5 Age is also very important. In rare occasions we see dating partners with a difference of 10 or more years of age. Statistics show that couples are more successful if the age difference is bellow that number.

N.6 The first impression and the physical side of dating. Although important, relationships just based on "looks" have a success rate of less than 5%. Love and relationships longevity are not based on "looks". Try not to search for a magazine cover model but rather a partner with appealing "looks" and more important an intellectual match. 

N.7 Take your time.... date and date even more before considering any major jumps. Only time will give the answers to the above list. Only with time will you be able to check or cross your item list.

N.8 The last step, but never the less a very important step. During process n.7, make a few tests concerning your "must have" list. You want to be absolutely sure that what is checked "checks out" and what is crossed "crosses out". By now, you should have meet a few friends or family of your dating partner, it's always a good idea to discreetly dig info about your "must have" list.

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