Dating your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend

Dating your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend.

Very common are dating relationships that end to re-initiate some time later. We are talking about all the cases where the dating relationship ended with your boyfriend or girlfriend and some time later you get back together. In this article we are going to analyse all the good and bad experiences that might occur in such practice of dating your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend.

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No matter what some times you want to believe or your heart is telling you, people don't change easily. In many cases the problems and personality mismatches that caused the relationship to break will still be present in this "new", "old" relationship. You can either accept this fact or live in the pink illusion that the problems are gone. It is also common in older dating relationships for feelings to lead to flirts and contacts in-between the ex's, our recommendation is that a dating relationship should not be re-initiated if any of the following pillars apply or were broken.

 When should I NOT date my ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?

Basic dating rules or commandments that when violated you should not date your ex.

N.1 All cases that involve cheating, there is an old saying "if he or she cheated once, he or she will cheat again. It is never acceptable by any means or justifications. Not even once. This is the first pillar of any solid successful dating relationship.

N.2 All cases that involve repeated lying. Do not re-initiate an dating relationship with someone that lies to you and does not grasp the importance of truth in a relationship or in life in general. This is considered the second pillar of any solid successful dating relationship.

N.3 Do not re-initiate a dating relationship if everybody else is telling you that it is wrong. You do not possess clairvoyance power over everybody else. By the contrary, your judgement is clouded by the relationship and you do not know best. In all situations that your friends and or family are repeatedly telling you that you should not date your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend, believe us, they know what is best for you.

 When should I date my ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?

If none of the above rules apply, then you might consider dating your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend. 

Remember that this decision is not only yours to make, your partner also needs to re-initiate the dating relationship. Don't be to flexible and forgive what you think it's wrong and might hurt the relationship, many times the "old", "bad" luggage surfaces, deal with with firmly.

Keep in mind that your wounds aren't healed easily. It's up to time to fix this if behaviours change. Don't let emotions take control of your practical reasoning.

Expect changes in what was wrong with the old dating relationship, but also expect changes in old behaviours that you considered good or acceptable. This is the most evident sign that things changed and that you are in a new relationship with someone changed.

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