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Dating Online and Love at First Sight

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Dating Online and Love at First Sight

zaaam love_sight1The subject of Love at First Sight is a reoccurring theme in human history. In the past years many studies were done and commissioned regarding this almost mystical, unexplained subject. What studies have showed is that Love at First Sight is real and exists and we can today outline scientifically why. Another question is... Can love at first sight manifest in dating online websites?

This will be the intent of this article, first explain scientifically what love at first sight is and also the possibility of it's manifestation in online dating relationships.

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As a small intro to this subject, even without knowing what it is, many of us already had a love at first sight experience during our high school years. Many times, this experience is actually our first love in life. This does not mean that the felling for this person actually developed into a relationship or deeper involvement. Why does it happen in our high school years?, this magnetic attraction as to do with our physical and emotional development stage, these are the first years that our body and mind change or blossom into love for a partner as opposed to, let's say "motherly" love that we experience from small age.

zaaam love_sight2Another inexplicable fact relates to the first love of our life and why in so many occasions it endures throughout our life. But that's another subject that we will cover in the future. Today, and because of all the studies done related to love at first sight, we can scientifically say that 65% of persons world wide experienced love at first sight. And the percentage seems to be slightly higher with the gender male when compared to the gender female.

Love, feelings, affection are clearly not a science but they do have scientifical explanations. We can say without any doubts that love at first sight is a two step judgement not only based in intuition.

Love at First Sight two step judgement

Ok, we already know that this is not based in intuition only. Let's take a look at these 2 judgement steps.

The first judgement, is a fast, basic, instinct judgement in where you classify someone as suitable for emotional and physical involvement, as in someone that you could have a dating relationship. Psychologists say that this judgement relates to what we look or find appealing in others, physically and emotionally in an brute, instinct level. Many times this is a split second decision when you meet someone for the first time.

The second judgement, is a more elaborated classification step. From the small percentage of persons that pass step 1 and that you consider suitable for dating at first glance, the second judgement looks deeply in what you find appealing in that person not only by instinct but adding your reason or justification to it. 

zaaam love_sight3In this second step we clearly restrict the circle of interest to a very limited psychological and physical connection to someone else. And this is where love at first sight comes into play. From this already very small and restricted group of persons that we meet and classify as suitable for dating or having a relationship, there is a small percentage of less than 1% that we call love at first sight. All our attraction bells ring loud and clear. The 1% shows that this situation happens only once or twice in someone's life, and we can classify this as a very rare and beautiful moment. Another curious fact relates to eye contact in these occasions, as we already explained, many times the first and second judgement occur in a split second, but the collected data also clearly show that when love at first sight occurs, there is a 10 second plus eye contact, as if we are bewildered, amazed in an almost "magnetic" way to the other person.

The second judgement step varies sightly according to one's age. In our early years of high school and middle life there is a more pronounced physical analysis, while in more mature ages there is a more pronounce psychological analysis. Same applies to gender, girls seem to judge more the psychological side while guys seem to be more preponed to physical aspects. Nothing new there...

Statistics and studies show that love at first sight can happen while dating online or in dating websites. The two step judgement is without any doubts present. The impact of an online dating profile, specially in dating websites like Zaaam Dating that allow users to have resumed, compact dating data, as well as photo albums, videos and even video dating profile, can create love at first sight experiences. This fact can easily be observed and is documented in many dating success stories between online users. The answer to the one million dollar question, Dating Online and Love at First Sight is Yes.

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